PROSTATE CANCER is a daunting challenge that can catch anyone by surprise. I’m Henry, a 60-year-old Londoner with deep connections to Ghana.

My journey with prostate cancer began in October last year, when I was experiencing pain in my legs and back. These were familiar symptoms that I had faced seven or eight years earlier. Back then, I had similar complaints, and I was tested for bowel cancer.

The doctors reassured me that I was in good health. However, this time, I went to my family doctor. He conducted a blood test called a PSA test, promising me results within a week. To my surprise, I received a phone call the very next day, and it delivered devastating news – I had prostate cancer.

“Today, I am cancer-free, by the grace of God. I want to share my story and tell other Black men about the importance of getting regular PSA tests”

Henry

I was referred to the Queen Elizabeth Hospital for a biopsy, a specialised test. The biopsy was painful, and I had blood in my pee for some time afterwards. Worst of all, it confirmed that I had prostate cancer, and I was referred to Guy’s and St Thomas’ Hospital for treatment.

Initially, the team considered treating me with radiotherapy, but it turned out to be unsuitable for me. So, in May 2023, I underwent surgery to have my prostate removed, to eliminate the cancer. However, the surgery came with side effects, including leakage. I did special pelvic floor exercises to address this issue and am pleased that 6 months later the leaking has now stopped, although I still wear special pads just in case.

After my surgery, I also faced difficulties getting erections, a common problem after prostate surgery. To overcome this, I am using a special pump and prescribed medications and with every day it is getting a little bit better.

Today, I am cancer-free, by the grace of God. I want to share my story and tell other Black men about the importance of getting regular PSA tests. We are at higher risk than other men, so it is even more important that we get tested regularly. I have seen friends who got sick because they didn’t catch it early, and I have two friends who are being buried in Ghana because they didn’t.

I count myself blessed to have Christian siblings and family who prayed alongside with me and to have had support from a group called “Brother 2 Brother” at St Guy’s which helps Black men with prostate cancer. This support reminded me that I was not alone in my struggle.

There is also a new website called the infopool, which has been set up to help Black men with prostate cancer. The infopool would have been helpful when I was diagnosed. I would have found the dozens of stories from other Black men and their partners especially useful. It would have helped me feel prepared for the challenges ahead. Don’t suffer alone, use the resources out there.

I hope my journey with prostate cancer will help those who may find themselves on a similar path. Remember, get tested regularly, because if it is found early it can be cured.